Tips for messaging on dating sites

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This past week alone I’ve gotten enough poorly executed messages to make me want to curl up in a ball of being-alone-forever.I try not to lose hope that there can be some genuine connections made through meeting someone off of the internet. I have even made several lasting friends from some of my experiences.Let’s talk about the concept of – which is a big “ah-ha” experience for most guys.Because most guys (and I’ll bet you’re one of them) want concentrate on sending out more emails first.When it comes to sending messages many people freak out.They want to say online dating sites give you profiles to work with.Instead of sitting down and writing a well thought out message they send a generic email that could be sent to absolutely anyone.While casting your net wide may eventually land you a good catch it’s more likely to leave you with an empty net.

Using the example above, with a “response focus” – if the number of women who respond could be increased from 1 or 2 per week to 2 to 4, your results will have DOUBLED. and yet so amazingly-effective, designed to help you get more responses fast and without a lot of fuss.1. detector” and can smell a generic copy and paste email a mile away.

Take some time to compose your message and avoid these common mistakes.

Mailshots Some people think it’s worth sending a message to every match they receive regardless of whether they’re genuinely interested.

Here’s the deal with the messaging thing, a lot of people have their own theories on how it works, what works best, etc. Others try pick-up-artist “negging.” Some send ridiculously long messages about their background and their overall philosophy and what they’re currently doing with their lives.

Some guys think that it’s cool to copy and paste and throw out a message like bait in a lake full of carp. I’d like to say there’s no right or wrong way to message someone (everyone usually has something that works for them), but there is definitely a better way.

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